From which we hide our petty fandom squabbles in shame and ignominy.
From a certain professional listserv I'm subscribed to:
Can't the members of this group have a discussion, of any type, without calling each other names and slinging sarcastic remarks? Some of you are just unbelievably rude.
I mean, seriously, don't you have enough work to do?
delete, delete, delete
(Though to be fair, the list isn't nearly as wanky as most fandom lists. The people on it just live sheltered lives, so when someone does get flamey or stupid, it attracts undue attention.)